Be Bold, Be Brave, Be Beautiful but don’t be someone else – just be YOU.
Apparently I have to go after what I want so if I grab you by the shirt collar and say you are coming with me!! I better not hear any objections.
Dear Lord I think I was reading about being a Dominatrix instead of just being confident oh well maybe a career change is in the cards hahahaha now sit!
That is what I wrote on Facebook a few days ago and it helped me to rekindle with a long lost friend of mine…My Sexiness. You see when I stopped getting dolled up and going out every weekend I didn’t just stop the outing, I stopped everything that came with it.
I’ve missed that girl who shows a bit of cleavage even with wrinkles, short skirts and high heel boots. I miss getting ready for a night out and I miss the frilly under garments (sorry if I’m being a bit too descriptive).
What I know is that I need to bring that girl back, I’ve already started to channel her. You see sexiness is not about your partner it is about you. Get on a pair of high heels and dance in your underwear in front of a mirror.
It’s amazing what feeling sexy does not just for your self-esteem. It brings out a youthful, playful side of yourself who can throw caution to the wind. A nice pair of stockings, some red lipstick, gorgeous manicured nails, hair blowing in the wind and a sweet perfume…that’s what I’m talking about.
Channeling a dominatrix is about confidence, “say my name bitch” is not just a line from #americanpie it is a powerful whisper under your breath when you see a handsome guy walking by and eye contact that has a wicked spark behind it is sinfully creating a vibrancy and confidence.
I really needed to find this again, especially as I work on the physical (I’m now down 10lbs), the emotional (I’m reading about confidence, working through pain and how to understand men, now the last one was a hilarious article. Here is an article I read, laughed a bit but I did learn from it. http://wallstreetinsanity.com/24-things-women-dont-understand-about-men/.
Yes I need to grow up but I will do that on my terms, when it comes to relationships especially dating I am a newbie at the game of love. The past is the past and this is the beginning of a new Gaily on the Block.
I am simply at my best when I can wear my sexiness in public rather than keeping it locked in my bedroom. Don’t worry it will be contained. I can just hear two of my co-workers gasping as they read this.
I don’t want to spend another year working, coming home and zoning out in front of the TV, I want to live life to the fullest, have fun and yes put on a pair of high heels and sexy lacy undies and sing my heart out in front of a mirror in my bedroom. The sexiness is about me, for me and damn I will say it I am a sexy bitch.
This picture was taken in August 2013, I love the way I look and the confidence I exude…this is where I want to be again without it being about a weekend outing. I want to feel sexy, confident and beautiful every single day and who knows maybe I can channel some of my anger more creatively lol.
This article is all about feeling sexy in your skin http://www.cosmopolitan.com/lifestyle/advice/a1863/feel-sexy-in-your-skin/Be